It is that time of year. When the leaves begin to change color and we remember why fall is so mesmerizing. The colors we encounter during the seasons' change are those that are warm and inviting. Inviting you to sit back and chill. Daylight savings time is this weekend and we will all gain one more glorious hour and basque in its sweet render. Just try to avoid thinking about the fact that the days are shorter as the night turns deep blue an hour earlier.
Fall back. The term itself has caused me to reflect on the year. The decisions I've made, the cheers and the disappointments, realizations, and the big one: me. I changed a lot this year. And it's for the good cause it's forced me to put everything in perspective. It's made it possible for me to preserve what is true, conserve things that can be fixed and convert anger into positive energy. It took me a long time to realize that I can't save the world, but I can make a difference by serving as an advocate for harmony.
It's that simple. When our competitive nature becomes fierce then we lose sight of harmony. The need to have more, to be better than others, to succeed big. It's not to say that we must give up striving for happiness or being successful in the workplace. The need to survive is dire. It's become a dog eat dog world. As a result, sometimes our blinders get in the way of considering the whole picture. Where did the simple childhood dreams that consisted of being content and among warmth and comfort go?
It is with great sadness that I admit I exist within the last generation before the internet, cell phones and social media/networking boom arrived full force. When I witness what children these days are exposed to, I think it's a shame. We need to work harder to save them. We need to show them how to be real people and connect how we once did on a regular basis. How to hear a live voice more often than read texts. To send letters rather than emails. The feeling of anticipation and excitement from waiting to hear a loved one's voicemail after returning from a long day's of work. To be patient. To truly understand the meaning of this and realize that this world of immediate access to everything is actually more stimulating than we need and not for the greater good.
To fall back to a time when people sat in their backyards and chatted with each other without the interruption or distraction of the internet, cell phones and social media apps. And we actually get to know each other. And there is harmony. I want this back.
Make simplicity the norm. Fall back.